Share and Share Alike

Posted by on July 4, 2011   Category: dildos ,sex toy reviews ,sex toys     ·Tagged , , , , , , .

I’d like to talk more about the Share double dildo.  I wrote a bit about it in my post about pegging The Boy, but I’d like to get into more detail, write a real review.

I bought my Share several years ago, when they first came on the market, I believe.  At the time I was dating a guy who really liked being penetrated, and I was super excited about fucking him.  At that point I already owned both sizes of the Nexus double dildo, but I really wanted something I could use without a harness.  I believe the original Share and the Feeldoe were the only real options available at the time – I bought the Share because the shape of it looked like it would both stay in and stimulate me more than the Feeldoe (which I was, gladly, right about – having tried one since then, I am not a fan of the original Feeldoe – sorry Tantus).

Anyway, here’s the skinny on the Share:

Material:  100% Silicone – easy to clean, sterilizable, durable, hypoallergenic, and totally safe for your delicate bits.  I would say the Share is a medium-firm silicone, with an almost velvety finish that feels nice to the touch – one of the nice things about Fun Factory toys.

Oh, don’t forget: do not use silicone lube with silicone toys.

Size:

*Bulb end, worn by the penetrator – 5- 1/2″ x 1- 3/4″

*Phallic end, to be inserted into the penetratee – 7″ x 1-1/2″

Personally, I find the Share to be quite a large toy.  The phallic end is about the biggest size cock I can be comfortably fucked with – anything wider or longer would be too intense for regular use (no one has ever accused me of being a size queen).  The bulb end is significantly wider, so it presents a bit of a challenge to insert; I have to be really aroused and well-lubed or recently fucked just to get the bulb of the Share inside me.  Once it’s in though, it’s pretty much there to stay.  According to the description on Babeland, you’re supposed to hold the Share inside you by using your Kegel/pc muscles but I’ve found that I don’t have to do that because it sits so firmly inside me.  I think being fat also helps keep it in place, because when my legs are together my thighs kinda squeeze and cradle the bottom of the dildo.

The phallic end of the Share was.. challenging for my Boy.  We warmed up with other toys first, and it still took a few tries before I could comfortably slide it into him.  The shape of the head is rather blunt and flares out very quickly, which definitely made it more challenging to insert.  The Share is by far the longest thing The Boy has had inside him, and that along with the thickness made it necessary for me to go rather slowly, which sadly meant that I didn’t get much stimulation from my end of it.  I really wish this toy was available in a slightly smaller size so I could really fuck him with it – I want to be able to do some vigorous thrusting, and until he gets more used to it, I just cant do that to my boy with a toy this large.

Use:  For the first few years, I didn’t have the opportunity to fuck anyone with the Share, but I discovered that it’s a good toy for solo use or to use manually on a partner.  The bulb end makes a decent handle, which is nicely convenient for a fatty like me who doesn’t have quite the reach that a skinny person would have – with the Share, I don’t have to sit up or contort myself into an uncomfortable position, I can lay back and relax while I’m fucking myself with it.  My girlfriend also really appreciated having something to hold onto while she was penetrating me with it;  she said she had much better leverage for thrusting it into me and her hands didn’t get nearly as tired as when she used a regular dildo.  She also found it easier to make me come with this toy than any other she used on me, it just seemed to hit my g-spot the right way, (probably because of the size more than anything else).

As far as its intended use goes, the Share definitely does its job.  Out of the four or five different double dildos I’ve used, the Share is hands-down my favorite – for me it’s the only truly functional harness-less double dildo.  It stays in me and I can fuck my partner fairly well with it and when there’s a lot of thrusting action, the Share is nicely stimulating for me as well as my partner.

Pros: I like the feel of the silicone, and the fact that the bulb end stays inside me so well, making it truly functional as a harness-less dildo.  Also, the phallus is nice and long, which makes it that much more functional as a toy for a fat person to use (since a certain amount of the length gets enveloped in all that soft flesh).

Cons:  The only downsides to this toy are the size, and what I’d call the floppiness factor (demonstrated in this youtube video).  I’m not sure if it was designed for lesbian sex or for pegging boys, but the Share is just a tad large for the latter, unless you’re playing with someone rather experienced.  I would really like to see this toy offered in a slightly smaller size.  It’s also really.. bouncy.  The phallic end is quite heavy and the join between the bulb and the phallus is pretty narrow, so the dildo has a tendency to move around a lot (and apparently, to droop, if you don’t have thunder thighs like mine to hold it up).  It’s really kind of fun if you’re just wearing it around the house, the bobbing makes the bulb end move around and press on my g-spot.. but the floppiness is not a good thing during sex – I felt like I didn’t have nearly the amount of control that I would have liked with it.  Also, the Share is meant to bump the clitoris of the wearer and provide additional stimulation that way, but being as well-padded as I am, my clit couldn’t even tell there was someone knocking at the door – I can’t really say that’s a design flaw, but it’s relevant to mention on the behalf of other fatties.

Conclusion:  All in all, the Share is a great toy and I highly recommend it for anyone that wants to fuck their partner without having to dick around with a harness.  It’s a real quality piece that does what it’s designed for and more, and it will last forever with minimal care.





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